NESHOME LIKHT FOR
ECOLOGICAL RELATIVES
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ecological sculpture
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performance installation
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ancestral research
2023
The Jewish Museum of Maryland, Baltimore, MD
In a time of ecological devastation when much of the natural world is in a state of hospice, Neshome Likht for Ecological Relatives reconfigures the Ashkenazi spiritual practice of grave-measuring to cultivate and honor relationships with ecological relatives in peril.
Grave-measuring or feldmestn is primarily practiced by women known as feldmesterin (grave measurers). The practice is traditionally performed during the Jewish month of Elul when the divide between the worlds of the living and the dead is thought to be more lucid. Feldmesterin encircle the graves of their ancestors or sometimes entire cemeteries with cotton thread that become wicks for hand-dipped ritual candles (neshome likht), traditionally to be burned on Yom Kippur.
The act of encirclement, in which cotton wicks come into contact with the earth, is believed to create a connection with deceased ancestors. The cemetery or grave becomes a portal between worlds. During the act of encircling, feldmesterin ask ancestors for guidance and forgiveness. Yiddish prayers known as tkhines are often recited throughout a grave-measuring practice. Historically, these spontaneous prayers and devotions were typically reserved for domestic use and shared from a personal, female point of view. Tkhines were a direct pathway for Ashkenazi women to foster their own relationship with the divine since they were often not taught Hebrew and excluded from community spiritual services held at synagogues.
In practicing kneytlekh-leygn (placing wicks) with more-than-humans entities, I utilize this practice to listen for guidance from the land, waters, and animals – all of whom have wisdom to share – about how to act in service to their longevity, care, and survival. It is a ritual reminder that any moment can be a holy one, and that our lineages hold tools for being with reverence and grief simultaneously. That we are part of a continuum between many versions of the world and have a responsibility to listen and care for all beings.
This project is supported by the work of many Jewish educators, artists, and facilitators including Dori Midnight, Elana June Margolis, Noam Lerman, and Rosza Daniel Lang/Levitsky who worked with me on Yiddish translations and pronunciation.
You can read more about the history and process of grave-measuring through the resources below.
Making Soul Candles: An Ashkenazi Jewish Ancestral Folk Tradition
Yiddish Tkhines and Spontaneous prayer: An Unbroken Chain
neshome likht for ecological relatives (video)
Documentation of the grave-measuring process offered at Chesapeake Bay and the creation of soul candles.
Direction & Editing: Tyler Rai
Filmed by: Jesse LeMon & Tyler Rai
Music: "Mussel Memory" by Nils Frahm
a tkhine for the waters
אַ תּחינה פֿאַר די װאַסערן
לאָז אונדז סובֿל זײַן
מיר בעטן
גיב אונדז געדולד
לאָז אונדז מרחם זײַן
מיר בעטן
גיב אונדז גנאָד
הילף אונדז געדענקן
די צוזאַמענבונדן װאָס מיר טראָגן
מיט אַלע װאַסערן פֿון אונדזער װעלט
נעכטן און הײַנט און מאָרגן
a tkhine far di vasern
loz undz soyvl zayn
mir betn
gib undz geduld
loz undz merakhem zayn
mir betn
gib undz gnod
hilf undz gedenkn
di tsuzamenbundn vos mir trogn
mit ale vasern fun undzer velt
nekhtn un haynt un morgn
a tkhine for the waters
let us be patient
we ask/plead
give us patience / be patient with us
let us show mercy
we ask/plead
give us grace/mercy / be merciful to us
help us remember
the connections we carry
with all the waters of our world
yesterday and today and tomorrow